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Making
the Local Church Safe and Secure for All
By
Rev. Dr. Dayl Hufford
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sanc
tu ar y
(sangk´ chú er´ i), n., pl. -ar ies 1.
a sacred place. 2. part of a church around the altar.
3. a place of refuge or protection.
sa
cred (s_´krid), adj. 1. belonging to God;
holy. 2. connected with religion. 3. worthy of
reverence. 4. that must not be violated.
These
two words are basic parts of our daily language used regularly
to describe the places of worship, the instruments of worship,
and the rituals of worship. In this article I challenge you
to consider the question, How do these two words describe your
churchıs understanding and regard for the people who
worship in your church?"
Todayıs
churches and their leadership are careful stewards of material
sacred objects. Communion silver is kept safely stored in safe
deposit boxes. The sanctuary is kept locked to protect paraments
and candelabra. The church office has restricted access to guard
the computer and copy machine.
There
is, however, an alarming neglect of one of the congregationıs
greatest treasures: the persons, young and old, who come to
participate in the mission and ministry of the church. The church
stands uniquely and embarrassingly alone in the community with
its low standards and priorities for safety, security, and protection.
Ponder the following:
- We are very careful about protecting access to our homes,
yet churches generously, even recklessly, hand out keys to any
and all who request them and keep sloppy, incomplete records
of who has them.
- We expect schools, scouts, recreation, and sports programs
to carefully screen all teachers and leaders who have responsibility
for children, yet churches eagerly accept the services of any
and all who volunteer with neither screening nor reference checks.
- We look to schools and day care centers to provide safe facilities,
furniture, toys, and resources for our children, yet our church
schools have old and outdated hand-me-downs that often do not
meet current safety standards.
- We hire lawyers to protect our interests in purchase and sale
agreements, mortgages, deeds, rental contracts, and wills, yet
churches are notably naïve, even neglectful in attention to
the legal aspects of incorporation, bylaws, and personnel policies
and procedures.
- We hold professionals in the community such as physicians,
accountants, psychotherapists, attorneys, and teachers accountable
for responsible use of their power and influence to consistently
act on our behalf to provide us with the services we require
from them. Yet we ignore the potential for church leadership
to betray and harm with their power and influence and we are
neglectful of our responsibilities when misconduct does occur
in our midst.
- We dutifully respect the boundaries of community professionals
with regard to paying them in a timely manner, respecting their
"office hours", and not asking them to work beyond their contract.
Yet we regularly expect our clergy to work long hours, be separated
from family on many holidays and almost all weekends, live in
housing that we wouldnıt think of living in ourselves, and pay
them at near poverty levels for their ministry with us.
These
are just a few of the unique dynamics of the church environment
that leave precious assets and innocent people unnecessarily
vulnerable to loss and abuse. The American Bar Association is
actively providing training throughout the country to train
lawyers to successfully sue churches. Today the church is being
scrutinized and being held to a legal level of responsibility
and accountability never before experienced by denominations
and local congregations. The complexities of laws and insurance
liabilities impact on all areas of the ministries and missions
of the local church. Ignorance is not a viable defense for protection
against potential litigation.
Look
again at the definitions of "sanctuary" and "sacred." Congregations
have been remiss in applying these definitions only to "the
big room where we worship communally." The church is challenged
to thoughtfully reflect on the theological, spiritual, and emotional
depths of these two words. When a congregation has the courage
and resources to look deeply and seriously at how it regards
all persons, as well as property, as sacred, and how "sanctuary"
is more than a room, the most profound experiences of the church
as an expression of the teachings of Jesus are possible. For
only then can persons safely allow themselves to be truly vulnerable
to the spiritual quest for, and response to, Godıs loving Word.
For
too long church leaders have hidden their heads in the sand
with excuses like these:
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"But weıre a CHURCH! Nothing will happen here."
- "Itıs difficult enough to get volunteers now! Weıll never
get anyone to teach church school or volunteer with the youth
if we put each volunteer through this kind of scrutiny."
- "(Name of long-time church servant and/or big giver) has had
a key for years. We wouldnıt think of insulting him by asking
him to return his key." o "We canıt afford costly upgrading
and improvements to our physical plant. This is an old building
and replacing all the doors in the church school is just too
expensive and not even necessary."
- "Our church has gotten along just fine the way it is for generations.
We donıt need to start monkeying with things now."
- "Nobody ever pays attention to our bylaws anyway. Most of
us donıt even know what they are. If we do, we donıt understand
them."
- "Of course, anything I tell my pastor is confidential and
privileged!"
- "We donıt need to concern ourselves with standards of labor
laws and practice. Our church secretary, sexton, and music director
are all members of the church and they would never expect us
to."
- "Weıre a church. We donıt have to pay any taxes."
- "We can rent our facilities to anyone we please."
- "Of course our pastor can do counseling. Isnıt that part of
seminary training?"
Sadly,
one of the ways I express my ministry is by consulting to churches
when they have had difficulties. I also serve as an expert witness
in matters concerning professional misconduct and fiduciary
duties of churches. Every week I meet with churches, pastors,
lay leadership, and denominational judicatories who are facing
the reality of the great costs of believing the statements above.
The
costs are far dearer than just financial. The real tragic expenses
of this kind of ignorance are the trust, faith, security, sanctuary,
and sacredness of those individuals and congregations who have
been harmed. Failure to be educated and informed about these
matters amounts to neglect of our sacred trusts and responsibilities.
Every congregation, individual, pastor, leader, or denominational
official that I consult with expresses it this way: "If only
I/we had known before what we have had to learn the hard way.
Then this never would have happened. I/we would give anything
to be able to turn back the clock and do things right."
Some
of the problem lies in the fact that pastors, denominational
officials, and lay leadership do not have the resources available
to provide themselves with the learning and experience necessary
to prevent tragedies. Neither traditional seminary training
nor leadership orientation has offered training in the following
important areas of providing "Sanctuary and Sacredness" in the
local church:
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Fiscal and fiduciary responsibilities
- Employee hiring and supervision
- Volunteer recruitment and supervision
- Building and property management and maintenance
- Religious education policies and procedures
- Responsibilities to report abuses
- Church incorporation and bylaws as legal entities
- Personnel law for local churches
- Church financial risk management
- Confidentiality and privileged communications
Recognizing
the need for these resources, Andover Newton Theological School
and the New England Pastoral Institute, Inc. provide a yearly
conference that brings together experts from all around the
nation on the legal, practical, and theological dimensions of
these topics. For a brochure or more information, contact the
New England Pastoral Institute at (603) 890-6767, or at their
website, www.ne-pi.org.
Note:
Rev. Dr. Day! Hufford was a cofounder, along with Rev. Dr.
John Mokkosian, of the New England Pastoral Institute, and serves
as its Clinical Director. The Institute provides interdenominational
resources in education, psychotherapy, consultation to clergy,
churches and denominations, conflict resolution, and mediation
services for churches in conflict.
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